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Groom Guide

Look your best on your wedding day

We will walk you through the most important style decisions you have to make on your wedding day. You will gain the confidence to make choices you won’t regret.

Getting Started

4 Articles

The Groom Guide by He Spoke Style

Welcome To The Groom Guide

Wedding Dress Codes Explained

How Everything Should Fit

How To Find A Quality Tailor

Tuxedo Guide

8 Articles

Considering An Ivory Dinner Jacket? Read This First

Tuxedo Style Choices Simplified: The Ultimate Guide

5 Different Types of Tuxedo Shirts

5 Different Types of Bow Ties

The Best Shoes To Wear With Your Wedding Tuxedo

Wedding Attire: Tuxedo Details and Finishing Touches

8 Black Tie Rules To Always Follow

Should You Wear A Watch With A Tuxedo?

Suit Guide

4 Articles

A Truly Unique Wedding Suit For The Modern Groom

Wedding Suits and Shirts Overview

Choosing The Right Shoes For Your Wedding Suit

Wedding Tie and Pocket Square Rules

Finishing Touches

4 Articles

Adding Personal Touches To Your Wedding Attire

Best wedding colognes for spring and summer weddings

Choosing a Fragrance: Spring and Summer

best mens wedding fragrance fall winter

Choosing a Fragrance: Fall and Winter

Pre-Wedding Grooming Tips

Tutorials

4 Articles

How to Tie a Necktie

How to Tie a Bow Tie

How to Fold a Pocket Square for a Wedding

How to Lace Your Shoes for Formal Events

Outfit Inspiration

5 Articles

5 Statement Dinner Jackets Guaranteed To Turn Heads

Formal Wedding Outfit Ideas

Classic Wedding Suit Outfit Ideas

Summer Wedding Outfit Ideas

Bridal Shower & Rehearsal Dinner Outfit Ideas

Extra Credit

4 Articles

How To Be The Best Dressed Guest At A Fall & Winter Wedding

Tips For Dressing Your Groomsmen

Why You Should Get a Custom Tuxedo or Suit

Every Single Detail Of What I Wore On My Wedding Day

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Our Story

Nick and Nora arriving at the @fsnydowntown after

Nick and Nora arriving at the @fsnydowntown after a night on the town… Robin and I have created many memories at Four Seasons properties over the years but perhaps none as special as at the Four Seasons Downtown NYC. It was January of 2017 that I concocted an elaborate wedding proposal that ended in the Greenwich Room at the property. It was an incredibly special moment that could have only happened there. We feel so fortunate to continue to make new memories at @fourseasons around the world and, of course, to get to visit the property that started an eternal love affair again and again.

H/t to @robmciverphoto for the great 📸

One of my favorite fall outerwear pieces is this p

One of my favorite fall outerwear pieces is this plaid wool safari jacket from @menswearhouse. It’s incredibly versatile and I particularly love how it provides the perfect balance point to a variety of looks, adding a touch of sportiness to a business casual outfit and dressing up a pair of jeans. Swipe to see both looks and click the link in bio to shop the jacket.

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Had the pleasure of attending a one-of-a-kind dini

Had the pleasure of attending a one-of-a-kind dining experience last night at @fsbaltimore in collaboration with @claseazulofficial. An exquisite multi-course meal prepared by Chef @tristan_baker_ and team with perfect pairings of tequila and mezcal. An absolutely incredible way to finish off the summer.