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Cigar 101: How To Hold a Cigar

August 9th, 2016

A mildly tongue-in-cheek, but serious, guide on how to hold a cigar properly

There’s a lot to think about when it comes to cigars. Choosing one. Cutting it. Lighting it. And smoking it. The last thing on your mind is how to hold that cigar your smoking.

However, how you hold a cigar, is a key component to the cigar smoking experience. Your choice of grip, like the clothes you choose to wear, projects something about you. So you want to make sure you’re doing it properly.

Here are the HSS-approved methods for holding a cigar.

1. The Respectful Grip

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Remember that the cigar you are holding in your hand is the result of an extremely long and painstaking process. From seed to stick, literally hundreds of people have had a hand in making that cigar.

Translation? You need to show that cigar some respect!

There is no way to hold a cigar that shows more reverence and respect than what we call “The Respectful Grip.” The cigar is held lightly in the hand between the thumb and multiple fingers. Your grip should only be tight enough to keep the cigar in your hand and roll it back and forth slowly and slightly as you consider its majesty.

For longer cigars, use all four fingers. For short sticks (or when your Churchill starts to burn down) use three and then two fingers. Always use your thumb and at least two fingers.

What it says about you: You’re a cigar veteran. You understand and appreciate the craft of making a premium cigar and, therefore, you transform your hand into a sort of corporal pedestal/display case for that beauty.

2. The Pool Cue

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Holding a cigar like this is a straight up power move. You’re a boss. No, you’re the boss and you’re not going to get any arguments over that from the likes of Bruce Springsteen or Tony Danza.

What it says about you: You’re confident and have some swagger. You likely prefer toros or anything with a ring gauge larger than 50.

3. The Don’t Ever Hold a Cigar Like This

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The biggest problem with this grip, other than it looking weak, is that it actually is weak. The cigar is completely unsupported and risks being dropped or ashed prematurely. You know that trick you do with a pencil that makes it look like it’s rubber? That’s what this grip does to a cigar.

What it says about you: You’re a novice. But you won’t be for long, because hopefully someone’s going to tell you to never, ever hold a cigar like that again.

Thanks for reading.

Stylishly Yours,

Brian Sacawa
He Spoke Style

Photography by Rob McIver Photo

Brian Sacawa

Brian Sacawa is the Founder of He Spoke Style and one of the original men’s style influencers. Since 2013, his goal has remained the same: to provide men the advice and inspiration they need to dress well, develop their personal style, and gain more confidence. Brian’s interest and passion for men’s style and luxury watches has led to his writing for The Robb Report, The Rake, and Sotheby’s and he has been quoted on menswear in publications such as The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal,, Brides Magazine, and the Huffington Post. He lives in the woods north of Baltimore with his wife, Robin, kitties Nick and Nora, and German Shepherd/Collie mix Charlie.

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